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5 Conscious Dating Tips To Change The Way You Date

What is conscious dating? Well, the very term “conscious” here means to be aware and mindful of good dating habits. Everyone who goes out on dates is not a conscious dater. Many take an overtly casual approach to dates and such unmindful (unwillingly though) stance only leaved them with disastrous results. According to leading relationship expert site like Shallononline, conscious dating will redefine the way you date and that too in a positive way.

The post below offers a brief on 5 conscious dating tips.

Understand your non-negotiables

Non-negotiables can be defined as values or attributes that are close to your heart and ideologies and in no way you will compromise with them. Relationship is all about adjustments – but you must take note that there is a fine line between adjustment & compromise. If you compromise with your ideals or non-negotiables just to get into a relationship, you are only going to end up with an empty-shell bonding. In fact, a clear idea of your non-negotiables will enable you to screen your potential dates more effectively. Most importantly, these will prevent you from falling into futile relationships and find out “the” one who is actually meant for you.

Make sure to convey these non-negotiables to your date slowly over time. It’s extremely important for you to know his/her thoughts about them.

Love yourself

You can’t love another person if you don’t love yourself. Be kind to yourself and invest in self-care. Don’t waste time in pondering you were too weak to meet your ex’s expectations. Each person has his or her unique appeal as well as typical strengths and limitations. Focus on your strengths and try to be better at them. Keep a positive mindset. You are trying to go into a new relationship. The other person is also dreaming of a lovely life. You certainly don’t want to dampen a beautiful future ahead with a depressed face.

Best self should take the stage

When you are contemplating on starting something afresh, begin with putting your best foot forward. You will be yourself but make sure to bring the best version of yourself. It’s not about imposing an artificial layer on you. The idea is not about  a desperate try to be good. But rather it’s about bringing up what is already great about you. Your date should see the coolest things about you. However, that doesn’t mean you will hide your terrible flaws. You may mention them over the second or third date. In fact, having the courage to admin one’s flaws is a commendable fact and any sensible person will appreciate it.

Learn from mistakes

Past breakups are no doubt traumatic but they have a lot of things to teach us. Ponder on them for a while and try to understand your mistakes. Make sure you don’t repeat them again.

Be flexible

Everybody harbors certain criteria regarding external appearances, location or other parameters when it comes to finding a date. But if you are too rigid with these parameters, your boundaries will get restricted. Thus, try to be little flexible and keep your roads opened.

 

Eric
Eric
Eric Desiree is a graduate of Bachelor of Arts in Communication. He started his career as a Public Relations Officer in a law firm in Los Angeles California. Currently, he is the managing editor of ANCPR.